My foremost desires and interests are founded within domestic discipline, as well as this being something that I wish to better develop. Separately, I am a Chicago Disciplinarian/Spanker possibly available for ongoing mentoring or a single disciplinary session.
A spanking itself can vary between a sign of loving guidance to that of a cold calculated judicial punishment. Either way, the barbaric nature and communication is fundamentally raw and primitive. Its purpose is to inflict pain. This anguish, pure pain and suffering is itself a therapeutic and beneficial tool of stress release. Getting punished for your bad behavior relieves guilt and shame that you may otherwise be burdened with resulting from the said behavior.
Futile kicking and struggling are natural reactions to being spanked as you helplessly attempt to get up from the lap and move your bare bottom away from the raw punitive swats. Unfortunately there is nothing that you can do but comply with the spanker's desire to stop the spanking when he sees fit. Being spanked into submission and an obedient mindset is important.
Physically resisting a spanking is natural. Lack of submission can often be addressed with varying and punitive well-placed stingers slightly beneath your bottom and on the backs of your thighs. Thus teaching you a lesson in proper obedience and submission etiquette. As a spanker these reactions let me know that the punishment spanking is having its desired effect on you.
The pain and pleasure overwhelms your senses as you are spanked into submission. Your mind and body will be relaxed absorbing the heat that draws you deeper and deeper into that special place known as subspace. Your butt will be very sore and you will be very satisfied.
Depending on the degree to which you need to be spanked, the residual pain in the form of a sore bottom will be none to downright itchy and/or on fire. The latter results in an after spanking dance. Relieving guilt and shame through paying the price of a sore bottom is sometimes exactly what a girl needs in order to make her feel whole again.
It stings and it’s hot to get a spanking on bare skin. The loud sharp sound makes it even worse. Your butt stays hot and red, then pink, for a while.
Careful communication and understanding prior to the actual infliction of emotional and physical pain should first transpire between the disciplinarian and individual targeted for spanking.
The humiliation and deterrence value of corporal punishment is most effective for some misbehaved culprits. While others would not benefit from this judicial approach to fulfilling their personal disciplinary needs. Perhaps these individuals need to shame and embarrassment of being spanked as a badly child should be - a hand spanking on the bare bottom OTK.
Updated: 7/1/10